What the hell is a Dating Coach?

What is a dating coach and do I need a date coach?

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What is a Dating Coach?

What in the hell is a dating coach? I have been asked many times what a dating coach is and does my date coaching consultation service really work?

The quick response is I enhance people’s dating skills, and yes my services absolutely work for people who are ready to make a positive change in their love life. Now with that being said, I have spoken to many people who have no real desire to have a healthy relationship whether they are ready to admit it or not. As with any major lifestyle change (eating right, exercising, etc.) that will enhance your life, it takes hard work, dedication, and the individual must be emotionally and mentally ready to make that commitment, 100%.

Many potential clients want a magic pill or the magic answer that will give them the results they are looking for in their love life. I like to compare my services to a physical trainer. Most people don’t reasonably expect to lose tons of weight and tone up in a day so why would you expect to turn your love life around in a day? Natural and unnatural created habits or behaviors are hard to break in a month not to mention a day. So as a professional dating coach I help people recognize a more realistic view of where their love life is and where it is headed.

A major component of my 1:1 dating coach seminars is confidence building! Over half of my sessions focuses on confidence building and helping my clients build value in themselves. I am not a pick up artist nor do I sell you a dream. I use proven confidence building and behavior skill coaching with each one of my clients.

My clients typically start to see results in the first couple of days after my date coaching consultations start. On average, I see my clients for 2 or 3 months depending on how intense our sessions are and their drive.

Things to consider when hiring a date coach:

1. Are you ready to open up to a complete stranger with personal information about your past dating and relationship experiences?

2. Are you willing to be honest with yourself about your past relationship experiences and why they potentially did not work out?

3. Are you willing to be open to constructive criticisms and understand that it is for the greater good i.e. potentially lead you to a happier and healthier relationship (and self in general)?

4. Are you willing to make time to actively participate in date coaching sessions?

5. Are you financially prepared to investing date coaching services?

Take these items into consideration before you choose a dating coach! As a professional dating coach I hope I was able to shed some light on my services and the industry I consult in.

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10 ways to improve your online dating profile

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Does your online profile say I just want to attract a sexual deviate or I am serious about dating? Both men and women have many ideas about what makes their online dating profile stand out from the rest. You have to understand that having an online dating profile is like applying for that great career and your profile is your online resume. So as a professional dating coach in Tampa, Orlando, and Central Florida I have created 10 ways to improve your online dating profile for Match, Eharmony, Plenty of Fish and other dating sites so you can find the love of your life.


  1. Have current and clear profile pictures. People want to be sure of who they may potentially connect with. This means no camera shots high in the sky, in a bath room mirror, in a dark room behind your computer screen at 3:49AM or in your car with your kid’s car seat in the back.
  2. Never include your friends or other random people in your profile pictures. This goes back to people never want to be attracted to your friend and then they find out it is you.
  3. Tease the eye not the crotch. You can show a little skin but never be naked, half naked or covering a naked part… Classy not trashy.
  4. Never include your past baggage in your profile description. If you’re looking for a new serious relationship never turn people off by saying what other people have done to you in your past. Start fresh!
  5. Be positive about life! Positive people love other positive people! If your start a new relationship you have to start on a good foot!
  6. Use correct grammar and punctuations. Using correct grammar will instantly give you more contacts. It shows your potential mates that you care about how others perceive you and you don’t write like a 13 year old.
  7. Keep it Simple Stupid. Never be to detailed and long winded in your “About Me” section of your profile! Research has shown that men and even women only look at your picture and the title of your profile. This also means do not put “if you read this then put _____ in your subject line in the message you send me” in your profile description.
  8. Do not share your major life plans! In your dating profile be light and fun! Never write about when you expect to get married, how many kids you want or that you’re thinking about going back to school!
  9. Be truthful! This should be obvious but people tend to create a person that they think people want. “Cat-fishing” The reason you want to always be honest and truthful is because you never want to start your relationship with a lie or being deceitful!
  10. Flirt with your words Sex appeal can go a long way in person and this is just as true in texting and your profile! Show a sexy and mysterious side to draw your future mate in and then make them work for the goodies! In your profile use phrases like “Maybe if you’re lucky you will find out what really drives me” or “Show me your true side and it might get me to show you mine”. You can use these phrases as a profile heading or a title as well!


After you apply these simple and easy changes watch the phone numbers and perfect matches start rolling in! Although I would love to guarantee you will find the love of your life that depends on how you interact with your new mate once you initiate contact! But as always I am here for you because I am your professional dating coach.

If you enjoyed this blog article or you think someone you know could benefit from a Mr. Date Coach blog; please socially bookmark this article today so your friends on Facebook, Twitter, and any other socially bookmarking sites can enjoy it as well. I am your Mr. Date Coach.

To sign up for a free consultation please contact Mr. Date Coach.

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Stop blaming men for your bad relationships!

Why do women blame men for their relationship issues? Why do women blame men for their relationship issues? Mr. Date Coach explains.

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Why do women blame men for their relationship issues? Why do women blame men for their relationship issues? Mr. Date Coach explains.Okay ladies…Back to Reality! Stop blaming “MEN” for your own unhappiness! If you continuously attract the same type of men, take a minute and ask yourself, “Self, why do I keep attracting the same type of guy?” Once you realize the key to that is “Why do I…” you are on your way to getting the right man already!

We, as humans, tend to rationalize nearly everything we do, finding ways to blame others for our own short comings. For example, people who are unsuccessful tend to blame anyone and everyone for their own failures. On the other hand, people who have proven to be successful time and time again, take personal responsibility for both their successes and failures, while continuously moving forward! These types of people believe in themselves to the point that nothing can stop them! Now ask yourself, “Can I be stopped at finding love?” And lastly, ask yourself, “Why do I blame men because ‘I’ can’t find the perfect man?”

Now that you’ve asked yourself some home hitting questions, are you ready to change your mind set about why you do not have the love life you deserve? It all starts with YOU!

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Are you happy being alone?

Reasons why you are unhappy and single. A dating coach and matchmaker explains.

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Why do most people say they enjoy being alone, yet always talk about finding that special somebody? That statement is a true contradiction. Why would you enjoy being alone when you want the love and comfort that is bought from that special person.

Lets start telling the truth world. If you want to find someone then be honest with yourself and stop taking the backseat on life and love. Love does not just fall in your lap like money does not grow on trees… (Some would like to disagree) but I believe you get what you work for (A lot of more people would definitely disagree with that statement).

Do you really want to meet the special someone? Okay second chance, do you really want to meet that special someone!?! Well take your self out of the backseat and take control of the steering wheel called your love life! Now I know you are wondering how do I start?

Mic Check is this thing on!!!

1. Address your Confidence (If your attitude about your self is in the pits… Well imagine how the world looks at you?)

2. Adjust your style (Sorry but 99% people are attracted by the eye first… the other 1% are over 80!)

3. Learn some basic dating skills! (That’s where I come in… Mr. Date Coach)

4. Start meeting and greeting people online and face to face (We can work on that as well!)

I hope these few concepts helped! But if they did not or you need help with your dating skills… I am here to help! I am the Premier Central Florida’s Mr. Date Coach!

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