10 signs of a cheating boyfriend

10 signs of a cheating boyfriend

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Hell10 signs of a cheating boyfriendo world, I am your Mr. Date Coach. As a professional dating coach and matchmaker I have consulted with many clients that have been in “cheating” relationships for years. Most women have a hard time recognizing signs of a cheating companion. So with my professional experiences as well as being an ex “playa” myself, I have compiled a list of the 10 signs of a cheating boyfriend. Please read carefully because you may recognize a few things your man does on regular bases. As a side note, it is important that both you and your boyfriend are on the same page about being in a committed, monogamous relationship. Don’t stress the booty call, please! Wrong blog!

1. If you are reading this list of a cheating boyfriend he might be cheating. God has given most of us common sense and has blessed women with a “woman’s intuition”. If your man is showing any signs noted below your boyfriend may be cheating.

2. If random women are constantly telling you that he is having sex with them, it is a  good indication he is cheating on you. Most men will tell you that she is lying and just hates what you two have. “Classic!”

3. If you are not able to come over to his house whenever you desire, he might be cheating on you. This is a very sensitive issue because again, there needs to be a clear understanding that you are in a monogamous, committed relationship. You also have to allow him the same access to your home.

4. If you never hear his phone ring or make a single noise, he might be cheating. The reason his phone is on silence is because he may receive phone calls from other women and it is highly suspect if he does not pick up the phone if it is ringing or sounding off excessively.

5. If he actively maintains his accounts on other dating sites, he might be cheating. Social Media is a part of us all, but dating sites are made for Dating/ SEX BUDDIES! Most dating sites are hook-up gold mines.

6. If he is not willing claim you as his girlfriend, it might be a sign that he is cheating. When people are in love, and want their relationship to flourish, they will allow the world to know they’re a committed couple.

7. If he does not bring you around his friends, he might be cheating.  This says a lot about how he feels about you. It is also a sign that he does not want the people close to him to know about you because he could be dating someone else. His friends may judge and not approve of his behavior. Not likely because they are wild guys too!

8. If condoms are missing out of your sex drawer…. Well no need to explain that. Stop crying… Please, this is to help!

9. If he does not want to let you meet his family, he might be cheating. This is a very big “NO GO” if you have been dating for some time. Either he is cheating or he is about to break up with you.

10. If he consistently blames you for cheating. Most people will blame you for acts that they are committing because they know it is possible for them to do, so you must be doing it too.

Again, I want to stress the importance of making sure you are in a monogamous, committed relationship before you pay attention to any of these signs. And remember, just because he shows one or two of these signs does not guarantee he is cheating so ask before you condemn him, he might just be a Dumbass. Not every guy cheats Ladies. Sometimes it takes time to meet the friends and family so don’t stress. But ensure that you are showing the same respect to him that you want to receive.

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10 Things women want to hear

10 things women want to hear by Mr. Date Coach

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10 things women want to hear

What things do women really want to hear from men? I always get asked this question. I find this to be a great question because most women want to hear pretty much the same thing, honesty at all time and anything that directly relates to them. Duh Sam Lee!  Well I have actually created a list of 10 things women want to hear from men. Whether you are approaching a woman for the first very time or you are trying to get your girlfriend to open up more in your relationship, they all love to hear the following:

1. Honesty. The truth shall set you free! Not only is that a cliché line from criminal TV show interrogators but it is also key to what women want to hear. Enough said!

2. Never tell them what they want to hear! But… but… I know what you’re thinking… Never tell women what they want to hear? Of course not, you suck up! Many women can smell game, cowardly fear and a man that is not confident from the jump of any approach. I have yet to approach a woman, date or even attempted to break up with a woman saying everything she wants to hear. Most women love a man who is confident and willing to take a huge risk in order to sway her heart and unveil the mysteries of her sexual appetite! You have to be willing to tell her in a very flirty kind of way she would be much more attractive with her natural brunette hair color versus the cliché stripper blonde. Most often, the truth will set you free and cause her to react in ways that you may never image. Women love hearing what they do not really want to! It shows you have balls and you will always be honest no matter the cause.

Related: 12 Things to Never Say to a Woman on a Set or Approach

3. Loving more than her “Ass” and “Boobs”. By telling her “I am in love with your eyes… smile… the way you walk… or the way she can take the attention away from anyone in the room shows that you pay attention to details. Women are typically more detailed oriented. At times I have seen women pace a room, change their hair styles or even drop a joke to get a man to notice the small great things about them. Details, Details, Details! Focus and compliment a woman on the details that most men will often miss or pass up!

4. I got it! With the advent of metrosexuals, career losers and men who still live with their mothers there is a lack of strong men who say “Babe, I got it!”  This is the damsel in distress call to action statement. Women want to hear and know you got it before all else fails! As a man you must step up to the call of duty to make things happen. Love is for the strong not the weak. Show a woman you can handle repairing her flat tire, grab the tab at dinner, or even scoop her up when a situation is a bit unsafe.

5. “Show me what you got.” As most women know in 2014, they can do things too. Being the alpha male 24/7 can be a bit overwhelming at times and leave her sneaking out on you for some beta male relief. There are times where being the alpha male is great, needed and most often appropriate. But, since women like to show their muscles, flex their new sexual trick she learned in a random book her girl friend gave her and pay for the vodka shot at the bar after she closed the big account, you have to let her flex! By allowing her to flex she feels free and lets her be who she wants to be. After all, you never know, she may show you a thing or two.

6. You do it better than anybody. By telling a woman she can perform, cook or do whatever better than anyone shows her you’re making an effort to let her know she is the “ISH”. Men, we love a great compliment or positive comment after we prepare a great dinner, close on a business deal or perform a great “LAY”, so we need to boast a woman’s heads up as well.  If you give her some positive reinforcement to something she did well it will allow her to feel the confidence she deserves and will also make her want to start looking towards you for that positive reinforcement in everything she does.

7. NO. As children we’re often told no because we are doing something we most likely should not be doing although typically we try to do it anyway no matter the consequences. I said that to say this, it is okay to tell a woman NO. By saying no you show her you have restraint and you’re willing to exercise it at will. It also shows her you are not a push over and you will stand up for what you want and believe. Women find the word NO sexy, what can I say…

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8. This is how I feel. Okay, I tend to stay completely away from warm and fuzzy comments like this but… Women love to hear “This is how I feel…”  By telling her this you’re opening her up emotionally and showing you are willing to FEEL rather than to think.

9. I want you to meet my friends. Telling a woman this shows that you want to get her accepted by the people closest to you. The fact that most guys keep women hidden from everyone except their couch from college, 10 year old mattress and strange 27 year old dog named Jonny V this is a great sign that you want a little more. Of course like any of these great tips use this one in particular with extreme caution because she may only want to be YOUR booty call… What, it’s happen to me.

10. Amanda, Heather, Sarah. Say her NAME!!! Women want to hear you say their name. Babe, Hunny, sweetheart, Love, Sexy, Big Ol Butt and baby are great words to use once she knows she is the only one! But in the beginning of any conversation or relationship use her name. Women are sneaky creatures that pay attention to things we men take for granted…. For example, if you have a girlfriend what is her middle name? Don’t worry I’ll wait! Plus using words like babe and baby are corny and a bit annoying in the beginning.

I had to shed the light on the 10 Things women want to hear. Good luck guys!

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Causes of dating problems

Causes of dating problems

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Do you ever wonder why you are alone, single and have tons of dating problems? Do you really ever focus on why men are just not that into you? I am very big fan on self-realization and helping yourself first.  If you find yourself single and most of the men around you just want to have sex or be friends then you have huge dating problems! The dating problems that you are facing really depends on whether you see yourself having the much debated daddy issues, the common low self esteem scenario or the “all men are dawgs” mentality. These are the common dating problems you create when it comes to why you will ultimately remain single or have random subpar sexual partners from men you meet on free dating sites. For clarification all of these issues reside around being too proud to grow up point blank! Let’s explore this issue of dating problems further shall we!


Now how much sense does this scenario make? You act as if you are Miss Perfect, FL and your sh!t does not stink so you continuously shoot down quality and potential men because he is an inch too short, he’s not Italian with a Fresh Blow-out, or he lacks the funds to get the S-Class so he drives the E!? Really? You’re single and not willing to compromise? What if… Well this statement I am about to say is very close to reality as I can get so prepare your ears ladies… What if he dismisses you based on your ugly attitude towards every man that cross’s your path, your unrealistic core values your other single friends push on you, your corrupted morals or those dreaded 10 pounds you can’t seem to drop although you have been “Working out for 3 years”.


Are you the woman I am describing? Do you suffer with these common dating problems? Does your Mr. Right really need to drive a $100,000 Mercedes in order to get your attention? Well if you think he does, you better drive one too ladies! That’s what most men of today are thinking. Forward thinking men want forward thinking women! Not women who will be orange in ten years due to tanning beds or women who have unrealistic views on why taking vodka shots at their local watering hole until they black out is appropriate.


Most women will never get the chance to marry the ball player, wealthy business man, or Mr. Date Coach. (Shameless plug) With all of this said I am not saying settle for less ladies. Have your list of what you want from men but understand that “list” could be your down fall and have you alone or settling at age 46 for a 23 year college hunk looking for a MILF after a few smooth shots of Wild Turkey! But understand you are perfect to your parents but not to the rest of the world, sorry. Open your eyes and willingness to compromise and stop creating your own dating problems.

Let’s just get real Ladies!

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Why your boyfriend is not having sex with you?

Why does my boyfriend not have sex with me? A professional dating coach explains

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As a professional dating coach I speak to a lot of women who ask me why their mate is not sexing them like in the beginning of their relationship? So I created a list of why men may not be saddling up to make sweet love to you!

1. He is bored of you. Every relationship starts as either a “Super High” with lots of random, passionate and crazy sex or some relationships build up to the crazy sex. Either way typically depending on your relationship you may reach a plateau of less or expected typical boring sex. When you get to this point it is vital you switch things up in the bedroom.

2. He may be cheating. Usually if a man is turning your sex down he may be getting it elsewhere for various reasons. As a professional dating coach I typically tell my clients to communicate their issues with him cheating and if things don’t change just break up with him at that point.

3. He may have a medical condition such as Erectile Dysfunction or Low Testosterone. If your partner seems to always have trouble sexually or he does not have the drive to have sex he may want to seek a doctors help. Be very careful when explaining and suggesting this to him because this is a very sensitive issue with Men in general.

4. He masturbates too much. Men who constantly masturbate uses up all the energy it takes to make it happen in the bedroom. Either he loves the Porn or he wants to live out his fantasies. So… if you want to spice things up ask him how you can help make his dreams come true. You might be surprise how he turns your sex life upside down.

These are just a few signs of why he may not be sexing you. But as I always stress please communicate with your partner no matter what you’re experiencing in your relationship.

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10 Signs that your boyfriend is a loser!

Signs your boyfriend is a loser, exlained by a dating coach and matchmaker.

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If you apparently know you have a loser boyfriend you are the only one that suffers and looks foolish at the end of the day by continuing to date him. With that being said what if you do not know you have a loser boyfriend!?

Believe it or not most people know they can do better in terms of finding a better life partner. But most women are scared to be alone. That statement I am sure does not come as much of a surprise. Most of my clients are willing to go from man to man just to ensure they are not sleeping alone at night.

When I inform my clients they are insecure and should live with out a man until they find a suitable one that has many attributes they want from a partner, I usually get the question of “well what’s not suitable”. Every woman has a list and every woman understands what she wants but I am here to tell you what you don’t want and 10 signs that your boyfriend is a loser!

1. He does not have a stable or steady job/ career due to lack of educational planning? So if he still feels his rap career is about to take off and he does not have a demo yet, tell him to start the job hunt for a new career. How can you put your trust in the hands of a man who is not realistic about how he plans to take care of himself?

2. Do you leave home and he’s there and when you return he is still there to notify you that he “heard” about some job openings and he knows what you should cook for dinner? This is a bad situation because he has a lack of drive or a lack of self motivation which is crucial in any relationship in order for you grow.

3. Any type of physical abuse is a very clear sign he is a loser. The lack of his concern for your physical and mental health is a very dangerous sign of a person who should seek help.

4. Does he not actively try to be in his children’s life from a previous girlfriend or ex-wife? Let’s just say when you have a baby you should know what to expect.

5. If he does not have any measurable goals, dreams or aspirations of wanting more in life. This goes back to the concept of if he does not want more for himself why would he want more for you.

6. Is he extremely negative about your personal success? Does he try to make you feel bad about you striving toward your goals? How can you see yourself growing if you have a person that claims they love you by holding you back?

7. Does he not open the door, walk on the outside of the street, or volunteer to make your life a little easier? Chivalry is not dead even towards the independent women.

8. Is he not concerned about his personal hygiene such as not cutting his hair, trimming his nails and or having a clean house? This can be easily fixed with some positive reinforcement. (That blog is coming soon, “How to make him clean up after himself”.)

9. Can he not be sympathetic to your needs and wants? If he does not show any type of empathy about your difficult life events he will have a hard time showing that to your family and friends.

10. If he can not survive on his own and heavily relies on his family or your support you may be in for a man that is unfortunately still a boy!

These are some major signs of a loser boyfriend. I usually always say with all of my advice these may not be clear indications of whatever the topic is but if he shows any of these signs you can guarantee that he is a loser.

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